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What the world's holy books say about friendship

These lines about friends come from eight traditions. Each one is copied word for word from its book. They talk about how to choose a friend and how to be one. Each line links to the full passage.

The Bible

17 A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
Proverbs 17:17 (King James Version) · Read it in context
9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. 10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (King James Version) · Read it in context

Judaism

Joshua ben Prahiah says: Take unto thyself a teacher, and acquire a friend, and judge every person in favorable light.
Tractate Aboth (Fathers of the Mishna), chapter 1 · Read it in context
What is in thine heart concerning thy friend is in his heart concerning thee
Ancient Jewish Proverbs, chapter 8 (Social Life) · Read it in context

Islam

34 The good deed and the evil deed are not alike. Repel the evil deed with one which is better, then lo! he, between whom and thee there was enmity (will become) as though he was a bosom friend.
Quran 41:34 (Pickthall) · Read it in context
Abû Mûsâ reported, The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allâh be on him, said: "Believers are in relation to one another as (parts of) a structure, one part of which strengthens the other." And he inserted the fingers of one hand amid those of the other (so as to conjoin his two hands).
A Manual of Hadith, chapter 30 (Bukhari) · Read it in context

Hinduism

4 No friend is he who to his friend and comrade who comes imploring food, will offer nothing.
Rig Veda, Book 10, Hymn 117 · Read it in context
Beest thou poor or beest thou rich, thou shouldst honour thy friends. Until some service is asked, the sincerity or otherwise of friends cannot be known.
Mahabharata, Book 5 (Udyoga Parva), Section 36 · Read it in context

Buddhism

78. Do not have evil-doers for friends, do not have low people for friends: have virtuous people for friends, have for friends the best of men.
Dhammapada, chapter 6 · Read it in context
328. If a man find a prudent companion who walks with him, is wise, and lives soberly, he may walk with him, overcoming all dangers, happy, but considerate.
Dhammapada, chapter 23 · Read it in context

Confucianism

Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters?
Analects, book 1 · Read it in context
Tsze-kung asked about friendship. The Master said, "Faithfully admonish your friend, and skillfully lead him on. If you find him impracticable, stop. Do not disgrace yourself." The philosopher Tsang said, "The superior man on grounds of culture meets with his friends, and by friendship helps his virtue."
Analects, book 12 · Read it in context

Sikhism

They alone are my friends, who travel along with me; and in that place, where the accounts are called for, they appear standing with me.
Guru Granth Sahib, Raag Soohee · Read it in context

Greek and Roman classics

For where else is friendship but where faith and honour are, where men give and take what is good, and nothing else?
Discourses of Epictetus, Book 2, Chapter 22 (On Friendship) · Read it in context

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